Tamar Braxton, either you love her or hate her. If your feelings are the latter, they just may change after you read her candid statement about why she chose to divorce her husband Vince Herbert. Story inside.
I couldn’t be anymore honest with you guys when I tell I was in complete shock when I read that Tamar & Vince were getting divorced. This is a celebrity couple that’s always been in love for the cameras. If you’re a fan then you may even know them as “velcro.” Well, it turns out that Tamar Braxton was a part of “velcro” because she had a controlling husband that didn’t want her to leave his side. And that’s just the beginning of the story. This morning, the Braxton Family Values star shared her side of why she chose to file for divorce, in a long caption posted on Instagram. The message reads:
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.🤔something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either.I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together,to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope,faith,Love& dignity that I once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince🤦🏽♀️ ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will know what I mean.Sometimes we stay”married”for face value or to say”we did it”🙌🏾but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this,she did that,I put up with”this”& I’ve suffered & endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay🙇🏽♀️we get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit online🤦🏽♀️..some of us 🙋🏽have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared,what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”🤔 or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your”house when I’m the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time
Yes, this is a mouthful. Any thoughts on Tamar & Vince went from 0-100 real quick after the Blind singer decided to unleash the truth. Questions began clouding my mind while reading this. For instance, did Vince cheat? Did he physically abuse Tamar? Was he leading a double life? Why does she want full custody of their son Logan?
These are serious questions and you know what, I don’t want to know the answers. Yes, these two may have made millions by putting their life in front of the camera, but some things need to be left unsaid. All I want to do is be a fan and wish Tamar the very best.
I am quite curious on what man she’ll date next; but, no rush!